Libras love to think and ponder, analysing and dissecting everything. They need mental stimulus to feel good and well-informed, but sometimes they can't seem to commit to a decision or a plan.
They also hate being ignored or taken for granted in a relationship. If their partner doesn't pay attention to them or ignores their needs, they will quickly withdraw from the relationship.
Being ignored or taken for granted
There is nothing that libras hate more than being ignored or taken for granted. This is a major affliction that Libras face and can be especially frustrating for them in a relationship.
They want to feel like their partner is putting them first and that they are heard and understood. When they feel that their needs aren’t being met, it can be very painful and make them want to leave a relationship.
Being ignored can also happen in their everyday lives when people treat them with indifference. For instance, you might submit an application to a job or send a message, only to receive no response at all. This can be extremely frustrating and it may even cause you to write yourself off as unworthy of love or acceptance.
If you notice this happening in your life, try to replace feeling indebted to other people for their affirmations with self-appraisal. This will help you to realize that you are a worthy and important person and that you deserve respect.
This will help you to be more assertive and stand up for yourself. It will also show others that you are a valuable asset and that they can’t take advantage of you.
The biggest reason that Libras don’t want to be ignored or taken for granted is because they believe it will make them feel lonely and upset. They are so sensitive and have a hard time accepting unfair treatment that they are willing to fight back in order to get their feelings back.
They don’t want to be alone and will often try to find ways to stay connected with their loved ones when they are by themselves. They may become depressed or withdrawn when they are lonely, so it’s very important for them to be around other people.
When they do meet someone new, they may instantly struggle to get along with them. This can be a sign that they don’t feel comfortable around them or don’t understand their way of thinking.
They can also feel insecure and overwhelmed when they are around people who are constantly changing their minds or are indecisive. This can be difficult for them to deal with and it can lead to a lot of conflicts in their relationships. They also need to be able to trust their partners completely and never have to worry about their feelings being hurt.
Having different interests
Libras have a lot of interests, which can sometimes be a problem. They’re incredibly curious, and their unbiased approach to everything can make them seem too open-minded or unfocused.
They can also have a hard time making decisions, as their methodical process of weighing different viewpoints can leave them feeling wracked with indecision. This can lead to them being prone to flaky behavior, but it’s something they can work on in time with proper communication and a little patience.
In their free time, they like to spend their time learning and exploring new things. This can be in the form of academics, languages, or other fields that can broaden their understanding of the world.
They also enjoy exercise, as it can be a great way to connect with their spiritual side and feel connected to the divine. It’s also a way for them to stay in shape, which is a huge priority to them.
When it comes to relationships, Libras love to be involved with other people. They want to spend time with their friends, and they often make plans that may be impossible for them to keep if they don’t take responsibility for scheduling.
But when it comes to relationships, they also dislike conflict. They don’t like to be the ones to get into fights, and they can find it hard to stick to a partner when they’re not getting what they want from them.
If you’re dating a Libra, try to encourage them to make the first move in your relationship. When they’re able to do so, they’ll be more likely to be on the same page about everything and feel comfortable compromising in the future.
In the same vein, they’re a lot more likely to stick around when their partner has a good personality and makes them laugh. It’s a great way to build trust and friendship.
As far as hobbies go, they’re always interested in trying out new ones, and they love to explore their partner’s interests and hobbies too. This can help them develop better communication skills, as they’ll be able to ask for advice or support when they need it.
Being self-obsessed is a trait that Libras have a hard time with. It can make relationships difficult and it’s also a major reason why they have a hard time with forming deep and meaningful bonds.
Self-obsessed people have a hard time letting go of their emotions, especially negative ones. They are often unable to see things from another person’s perspective and they may struggle to set healthy boundaries in their relationships.
They have a hard time making decisions and they tend to overthink everything. This can lead them to choose the wrong option in the end. They can also become irritable when they are not able to make a decision.
This is because they want to avoid offending anyone and causing a lot of stress in their relationship. They want to keep the peace at all costs and this is why they will continue to evaluate and analyze every single situation they face.
If you’re trying to build a relationship with a self-obsessed person, it is important that you understand how they can be so manipulative and selfish. These people are usually very charming and they will do their best to please you, but they will not be honest about what’s really going on.
They are always trying to help you, but they never give you anything in return. They will only be helpful if you do something for them, like pick up milk or vacuum the house. They are just trying to show how nice they are.
Ultimately, they aren’t a good match for you if you want a serious and lasting relationship. They will be a good friend, but they won’t be your soulmate.
Self-obsessed people tend to have a distorted sense of self-worth and they will often seek attention and validation from others. This can cause them to act very snobbish and they will be very difficult to deal with. Luckily, this can easily be overcome with the right approach and techniques. It is very important for those who are self-obsessed to learn how to love themselves and they should try to cultivate self-love in their lives.
Getting into fights
Getting into fights can be a huge pain for anyone, but Libras don't like it nearly as much as other zodiac signs. For one, they're very sensitive to criticism and may take it personally if someone says something about them that they disagree with or don't like.
Another thing that libras hate is when people try to use arguments as a way to bait them into fighting. They know that if they can get you to react in a way that you can't control, it will be more likely for them to catch you on a bad day.
You can avoid this type of problem by not being confrontational in the first place. Rather, talk to them and explain that you're feeling upset or hurt about what they've said or done. You can ask them if they are okay with talking about it, or if they want you to come over and talk to them privately.
It might be hard for you to do this when someone is so mean or unfair, but if you can make sure that they understand that it's not your fault, you will be able to avoid fights in the future. You might even be able to help them learn how to handle it better, too.
Fights don't have to be physical – even if you're a strong fighter, you should still try to avoid a physical confrontation when possible. If you are having a tough time avoiding a fight, ask for advice from someone who is more experienced in the situation than you are.
If you're dealing with a lot of emotional problems and are having trouble connecting with people, you might try to see if your friends can be helpful. They are often good at listening and giving you some advice on how to deal with a difficult situation.
You might also consider asking a teacher for some guidance. They are trained to help students deal with issues and can help you develop a strategy for dealing with your emotions.
Ultimately, it's up to you to change the things about yourself that cause you to be aggressive and get into fights. It will take some time, but it's worth it.